🐘 Elephant: We blew it! Weight loss is hard. We should give up. 😔
🕵️♀️ Observer: There is anxiety.
🏇 Rider: Take a deep breath, we know how to deal with anxiety, and we know how to burn off the weight, we've done it before.
🐘: But I RUINED it! ☹️
🕵️♀️: There is sadness.
🏇: It's no big deal. You can be sad, you liked having burned all the weight. Now we get to do some more.
🐘: We should EAT. ALL. THE. THINGS. today. We already blew it. 😟
🕵️♀️: There is all-or-nothing thinking.
🏇: How about we stick with the things that worked for us before?
🐘: OK. Let's skip eating, and go for a double-long walk. 😬
🕵️♀️: There is all-or-nothing thinking.
🏇: I like your spirit, but let's do the simple things we do every morning. Time to do Tai Chi.
🐘: OK. But we got up late. The morning is ruined. ☹️
🕵️♀️: There is catastrophizing.
🏇: We don't need to fix everything all at once. We just need to do the next thing on the list. What's the next thing we do every morning?
🐘: Weigh in. I don't want to know. It's going to be bad. I AM BAD. 😬
🕵️♀️: There is fortune-telling.
🏇: It is just a number. It will tell us where we are. And we get to update the graph.
🐘: ⚖️ ACK! We are up, A LOT. We ruined our goal. 😟
🕵️♀️: There is blame and shame.
🏇: Remember, we anticipated this. We know how to Noom. We got this!
🐘: What's for breakfast? 😋
🏇: We can have a breakfast sausage, eggs, carrots, and potatoes. We need to do a good job logging today. How does that sound?
🐘: Mm. Sausage. 😋
🏇: Great. Now let's meditate and do our yoga, then we can go make breakfast.
🐘: I don't feel like sitting. 😐
🏇: That's ok. You don't need to feel like it. You just need to do it.
🐘: 🧘♂️
Backstory: The previous day was an "oops". After walking 16K steps for a thing downtown, I got home hungry, and did my weekly big cook which got me in a cycle or cook a little, eat a little, cook a little, eat a little, ....
But I still had meals and dessert.
Then I stayed up late (6 hours later than usual) to watch a live event. I kept snacking on dark chocolate that was my go-to treat for this sort of event.
Good news: I only had one block—‒at a time (3 is a serving).
Bad news: over six hours I had six blocks.
So today, I was up (after getting up late) above my 50-pound milestone weight. I could feel the anxiety come on.
Saturday, August 31, 2019
Friday, August 30, 2019
Noom it up: Salads

My approach to salad construction is to layer in some order:
Fresh greens
Vegetable(s)
Fruit(s)
Protein(s)
Nuts (toasted)
A soft to medium cheese
Grated Hard cheese(s)
A small amount of dressing
Fresh Ground Spice (Coriander, Grains of Paradise, Pepper, ...)

Attending to the contrasts in shape and color, one can make a salad that is a pleasure to look at as well as to eat.
It doesn't add much time. Just prep the ingredients in the order you wish to layer them on the plate, and plate (weigh and log) as you go.
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In this salad, I had some nice Feta cheese I wanted to feature, so I made sure it was the very last thing, even after the dressing. If I'm going to spend the calories on cheese, I want to taste it. |



Similarly, greens and firm veggies could be pre-assembled. These make it easier to pull off a grab-and-go salad.

I try to mix up their treatment.
How to cut them: sticks, match sticks, sliced rounds, sliced sticks (little triangles), cubes....
Where to place them: top, middle, bottom, tossed with the greens, around the outside...
How to dress carrots: I often give carrots a quick marinade in good vinegar (white balsamic vinegar from Trader Joe's is nice if you want to keep the color), some lemon juice, and maybe a little toasted sesame oil, a little wine, port, or cider. Let them soak while you prep the rest of the salad. If you make extra, just keep it in the marinade until ready to use.


I use between one and two tablespoons of dressing for a salad.
To minimize the dressing, take the greens and a few other ingredients that like to be well-coated (celery, carrots, ...) and toss just them in 1/2 Tbs of dressing per serving. Assemble the salad and drizzle another 1/2 Tbs on top.
Count the red calories, and
make the red calories count!
Nuts, cheese, egg yolks, bacon are all calorically dense (i.e., what Noom calls Red food). That does not make them bad but it does raise a warning flag to be mindful of the portions and if this item is really carrying its weight for you.
If it delights you, feature it, log it, taste it, enjoy it.
Avocado has a special place for its creamy texture and richness, especially if you are not using much cheese.
When I use tofu, I like to marinate it in something to give a little flavor and variety. This works with turkey and chicken breast as well, especially if they are a little dry.
Hard-boiled eggs make an attractive source of protein.
Canned tuna, crab, or salmon are nice to mix things up.
Salad on!
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Thursday, August 29, 2019
Noom: Elephant Dialogues--Pizza Day
🐘: Could we have more pizza? 🍕
🏇: We've had our pizza. Wasn't it good?
🐘: It was yummy! 😋
🐘: Could we have more pizza? 🍕
🏇: We can have more tomorrow. Why don't we go brush our tusks so they are nice and clean?
🐘: But that will get rid of the yummy pizza taste. 🍕
🏇: Exactly! Then we get to lift weights.
🐘: That sounds hard. Why not just eat more pizza?🍕
🏇: Did you feel good the last time we finished lifting weights?
🐘: Yeah, it was better once we got started. ☺️
🏇: Good observation. What a good Elephant you are.
🐘: 🏋️♂️
🏇: We've had our pizza. Wasn't it good?
🐘: It was yummy! 😋
🐘: Could we have more pizza? 🍕
🏇: We can have more tomorrow. Why don't we go brush our tusks so they are nice and clean?
🐘: But that will get rid of the yummy pizza taste. 🍕
🏇: Exactly! Then we get to lift weights.
🐘: That sounds hard. Why not just eat more pizza?🍕
🏇: Did you feel good the last time we finished lifting weights?
🐘: Yeah, it was better once we got started. ☺️
🏇: Good observation. What a good Elephant you are.
🐘: 🏋️♂️
Fun fact: a serving of a Papa Murphy’s Family Stuffed Pizza is a One Sixteenth slice — 450 calories
PreNoom I’d have had 8 servings in an evening.
Wednesday, August 28, 2019
Noom: I Lost Fifty Pounds with Noom
Salad from my first day on Noom |
Most people on the program have a goal of losing one to two pounds a week. I went all-in with the program and have burned off 54 pounds. What drew me to Noom was that it was grounded in science and focused on long term sustainability. You are not on a diet you are focusing on modifying your diet to maintain a modest calorie deficit. Many lessons focus on hunger and the factors that contribute to the sense of fullness and all of the emotions and triggers around eating. Importantly, there is nothing that is off the diet, though you may decide that there are foods that "aren't worth the calories" for you. It's about choices and building better habits.
Adjust my shopping. More fruit, veggies, whole grains |
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50 pounds. Weight I was carrying all day, every day. |
I've developed a new relationship with food and hunger.
I am more aware of the triggers within me, and in my environment, and developed tools to respond to them more mindfully and healthfully.

Foods that I am still eating, but more mindful about portions: pizza, bacon, chocolate, my rich chocolate pudding, chocolate chip cookies, whole milk, cheese, donuts, cheesecake, crackers, chips, pasta, bread, rice, ....
Foods that are making a much larger part of my diet: FRUIT, carrots, potatoes, salads, soup, salsa, whole grains, avocado.
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